5 Reasons Why Being Yourself is the Best Way to Succeed at Finding Love

Many people have a hard time believing that being yourself is the best way to succeed at finding love.

Why, they think, would someone want to fall in love with them? They don’t think themselves smart enough or hot enough or funny enough. It’s hard to imagine that anyone would ever want them.

So, they create for themselves someone else, someone else they believe will be more lovable, and they put that person out there — hoping to find love.

Unfortunately, not being yourself is definitely not the best way to succeed at finding love because it will sabotage you in so many ways.

Let me share with you why not being yourself will ensure that you fail at finding love.

#1 — Being yourself is natural.

Being yourself is the easiest thing in the world to do. You have been yourself for decades and you can do you like no one else can.

Not being yourself takes work. Not being yourself, presenting yourself as someone else, making conscious decisions to do thing differently, all require a tremendous amount of energy. It takes keeping on top of the lies that you might be telling. It takes maintaining a façade of who you are not. It takes hiding things from your new…