5 Reasons Why You Keep Holding On to Someone Who Doesn’t Love You

Do you wake up every morning and wonder why you keep holding onto someone who doesn’t love you?

Do you want more than anything to love and be loved but are you sabotaging that dream because you can’t walk away from somebody who is doesn’t love you and is it making you miserable?

Holding onto someone who doesn’t love you is not an unusual thing. So many of us just want our relationships to work and so we keep on trying and trying, often to no avail.

What I can tell you is that, if you know the reasons why you keep holding onto someone who doesn’t love you, it will help you understand why you are doing what you’re doing and help you make change.

Here are 5 reasons why you keep holding onto someone who doesn’t love you.

#1 — You believe that you love them.

I can’t tell you how many of my clients tell me that the reason that they are staying in their relationship is because they love their person.

When I ask them what it is that they love about their person their response is always ‘things were wonderful in the beginning,’ or ‘we have great sex,’ or ‘we have fun sometimes’ or even ‘we are soul mates.’