5 Things a Guy is Thinking if He Won’t Commit But Still Won’t Let You Go

Mitzi Bockmann
5 min readDec 2, 2021

Do you have a guy who won’t commit but still won’t let you go? Are you wondering ‘what the hell is he thinking?’

For many of my clients, they believe that, if their guy won’t commit, it is because he is ‘confused about his feelings’ or ‘that he loves me but feels conflicted.’

I can tell you that, more likely than not, your guy isn’t thinking either one of those things, or anything like those things.

Below you will find 5 things that your guy is really thinking if he won’t commit but still won’t let you go. If you can understand what he is thinking about, you might find the strength to let him go and move on.

#1 — ‘She is great but I want to keep my options open.’

I know — at the beginning of the relationship your guy treated you like a queen. He made you feel loved and special and you want that back so much.

So, you might be thinking that your guy is thinking that he wants to get back to that place and that if you just wait long enough and are nice enough to him he will get there.

Nope, that is not what he is thinking. He is thinking that you are great, because you are, but that he knows that you aren’t who he wants to be with. But…

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Mitzi Bockmann

I’m a certified NYC based Life and Love Coach who works with people to help them find, and keep, happiness and love.