5 Things To Do NOW to Get Over a Break Up and Move On

Ok! You have decided that it’s time to get over a break up and move on.

Whether your break up was sudden or your relationship had been dying a slow death, getting over a break up can be really difficult. Your life has changed drastically and not being paralyzed by it is very difficult.

Luckily, there are things that you can do now to get over a break up and move on quickly.

#1 — Be determined.

The most important thing to do to ensure that you can effectively get over break up in the quickest amount of time is to be determined. When you are trying to make big change, determination is an essential part of being able to do so.

Let’s say that you are trying to quit eating ice cream. You know that it’s not good for you and it keeps the weight on so you have decided to make a go of it. But your heart isn’t truly in it and you are pretty sure that after a day or two you are going to go right back to indulging. That is because you are ‘trying to quit,’ you haven’t ‘decided to quit.’

Make sure that, if you want to go down this path of doing the hard work to get over a break up, you are determined to do it. If you go in with a half-assed attitude, that you are going to ‘try’ to get over it, you will fail. And when you fail…