5 Ways to Accept That He Doesn’t Want You

Learning how to accept that he doesn’t want you might be one of the hardest things you ever have to do.

You love him and, in spite of you knowing that something just isn’t right, you refuse to accept the fact that your relationship might be over.

And I get it. Who wants to let go of someone they love?

It is important, however, for you to work to accept that he doesn’t want you so that you can finally let go and move forward.

Here are 5 ways to do so.

#1 — Look for red flags.

Ah yes. Red flags. We all hate red flags, don’t we?

Why? Because red flags are those things that we are ignoring in an attempt to save our relationship.

I have a client who was in a relationship with someone who, I believed, always had one foot out the door. He would tell her he was coming over and then he would show up 4 hours late or not at all. When he did come over, he just wanted to have sex. He didn’t ask about her day or take her out on dates.

All of these things she justified some way or another. And none of these things did she tell me about until after they finally broke up, so I knew that she knew that those things were not ok.