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7 Signs You are Being Emotionally Abused in Your Relationship
Are you looking for signs you are being emotionally abused in your relationship? Are you worried that you might be caught up in something that isn’t good for you but you just aren’t sure?
Sometimes we are too close to a relationship to recognize the signs that it has turned into something damaging. Our friends and family tell us it is toxic but it’s hard for us to recognize because we are in it every day.
It is important that you know the signs of emotional abuse so that you can recognize whether it exists in your relationship and whether it’s time to get out.
#1 — One person has all the control.
One big sign that you are being emotionally abused in your relationship is when one partner controls the other.
One of my clients had a partner who had complete control of her actions. He dictated whether or not she could attend school, who her friends were, how she dressed, when they would have sex and what she ate for every meal. He also told her that only he was allowed to end the relationship. She took it all for granted and assumed that’s just how relationships were. Yeah, no.
People in healthy relationships do not try to control the other person. People in healthy relationships give each…