How To Keep Control Of Your Emotions and Save Your Relationship

Learning how to keep control of your emotions is one of the best ways that you can keep your relationship a healthy one.

Something I hear from clients regularly is that, when they are in conflict with their partner, instead of being able to talk about things, emotions take over, people get hurt and nothing gets resolved.

As a result, issues are pushed down, only to resurface over and over. This continued pain will ultimately destroy any relationship, no matter how much love is involved.

To that end, I would like to share with you why knowing how to keep control of your emotions is a key part of keeping your relationship healthy.

#1 — Step away but don’t storm off.

We are taught on TV and in movies that, to make our point, we need to make a declaration and then walk away. In the movies, after that declaration, the character has an epiphany that they were wrong and their person was right and everyone lives happily ever after.

OR, in the movies, when we storm away, our partner chases us because they love us so much and want to make things right.

But, in reality, storming away gets no one anywhere. It cuts any conversation short and only serves to put off until…